
Then Jesus said to his disciples, “If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.”
Matthew 16:24, KJV
Last night, I was at a Tenth Avenue North concert (which was amazing, by the way), and the lead singer was speaking for the moment between a song set, and he mentioned that verse in Matthew that says for us to ‘Deny Ourselves.’ He talked a bit about that, and I loved what he, Mike Donehey, said about it.
We hear ‘deny ourselves’ and a lot of the time, we think about giving up what we think is fun, entertaining, or things that make us happy for God. For some reason, a lot of Christians have the mindset ‘God wants us to be miserable… for him!’ This is not the case at all! Did you really think a God that loves you wants you to be miserable?
I think we can all agree – sin is tempting. Haha. We think it looks so good – it’s so tempting. That’s why it’s called temptation. It looks so good. Lovely. Harmless. Pleasurable. How else could The Enemy get us to disobey our God? It looks like ‘This will not hurt me,’ or ‘Oh, this is harmless.’
We THINK these things, but we know the truth – we know these are bad, awful things that God hates. Real happiness, real love, real pleasure, real joy does not come from sin. It comes from God.
‘You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever.’
Psalms 16:11
When Jesus say ‘Deny Ourselves’ he does NOT want us to be miserable or unhappy. Just the opposite. He wants us to live the BEST life possible. We KNOW this is the best life possible, too – God obviously did. He sent Jesus to DIE for THIS LIFE you’ve been gifted with.
When Jesus says ‘Deny yourself,’ he means for us to deny ourselves of the things we THINK look attractive, but what he and we know are wrong. Stealing something that does not belong to you. Sex and pornography. Lying to cover up something. All these things looks like good ideas on the outside. ’If I steal this, I’ll have something without paying for it!’ ’Sex feels so great!’ ’If I lie, then so-n-so won’t know what I did – I’m off that hook!’ But we know, from the bible, what these things cause. It does not end up good. Sin leads to death and a miserable life – exactly the opposite of what Jesus wants.
So next time you want a Cheeseburger, eat a Cheeseburger – you don’t have to deny yourself. Next time you’re sleepy, take a nap – you don’t have to stay awake ‘For Jesus’ sake!’
Deny yourself of the things that make your life miserable and that make you unhappy. Jesus loves you, and wants to see you smile.
So smile. Jesus loves you.
Thanks for Reading,
Lots of Love,
-Matt
written by Matt
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